Wondering how to get your girlfriend back after you decided to go out with your buddies for a drink after work but ended up staying out all night? When something like this happens to a guy, they usually don’t know what to do next and are especially at a loss for words. In fact, many guys don’t end up reuniting with their girlfriends over meaningless incidences just because they are afraid they are going to do or say the wrong thing and make the situation even worse. Knowing the right things to say to your girlfriend, however, can help reduce the anxiety of an emotional confrontation with her, especially when you realize the problem is all your fault, and she probably won’t let you forget this!
Say It and Mean It
When you finally get a chance to speak to your angry girlfriend, make the most of the time you have before she has second thoughts about talking to you. Begin by saying something like:
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Guys find it hard to say things like this in a meaningful manner, so try to keep your voice low and controlled when injecting your apology with these romantic assertions. Also, look directly into her eyes when you are talking. Hold her hand. Put your arms around her. Give her a single red rose while you are apologizing. Touch her hair lightly. Sometimes physical communication speaks much more profoundly than words.
After the Apology
Even after she has forgiven you, she may exhibit behavior that gives you the impression that she hasn’t completely forgiven you, If this is the case, give her a romantic card or leave her a note with a love poem under her pillow. Make her feel like she has your full attention until you sense that she is finally starting to really forgive you. However, this doesn’t mean that you should start taking her for granted again. That ‘s what got you into this mess in the first place.
Relationship issues will always arise every now and then but knowing how to diffuse them will make repairing the damage less painful and easier to manage emotionally for the both of you.