1. Induce Love by dedicating songs via email
It is the basis of any relationship to induce love. This technique really does wonders if your sweetie is far from you i.e. in a long distance relationship. Whenever, on any occasion or just randomly, pick up the most romantic songs and dedicate to her. These could be either in English or any other language so long the message is clearly sent across. This is a good way of sharing your love if you have been talking via email. It shows how much you care for her. Add a note like ‚I always miss you sweetie and this song goes out for you.
2. Induce Love by sending short messages.
It is typical for a middle class income earner to work all day long at the office and come back home tired. The entire day spent at office should never be without getting in touch with your loved one at home at least once. Send love sms to your sweetheart. During conversation ask her what she is doing and if she replies something like ‚working‛, ‚too tired cleaning up!‛, ‚handling the kids work‛ then reply ‚Don’t spend all of your energy honey. Save some of it for tonight ‛ This is definite to bring a smile on her face and she would wait anxiously for you to return back home.
3. Long drive holding hands together
Either you are newly married or just wandering out, utilize each and every single moment with her. Do not miss out any moment. Off course it looks stupid kissing while driving, although that can be done but more feasible is holding hands while driving on a long ride. This shows how deeply you are connected with her. Feel the warmth of her hand. At times while you are being romantic during driving, bring variations in your grip. Let her feel the depth of your grip. Whenever you get chance, kiss her wrist softly as it signals the act of worship. Make sure to have a mesmerizing environment in the car by spraying her favorite perfume or car spray. Enjoy the long drive gossiping about the most important aspects of your life. Keep the conversation light and DO NOT talk about any unimportant issues of life such
as budget, economic conditions etc. These conversations would turn her off.
4. Watching movie together & kissing wherever possible
Haven’t watched a movie yet? Or got to see one just like another movie? Well, this time turn your movie watching experience into a romantic and fabulously adventurous one. Make a list of movies that you know of are romantic. Get online and look for various Bond movies or romantic movies like The Tragedy of Romeo and Juliet, Titanic, A walk to remember etc. Watch the entire movie with lights off at your home while cuddling your darling in your arms. Make sure to get wrapped up in blanket and always have accessories like drinks, popcorns and remote control at hand before you watch any movie or else it would ruin your experience.While watching you should know where actually the romantic scenes come and try to do them with you loved one. However nothing can be done instantaneously.
During watching, fondle with your sweetheart here and there, sometimes kissing her forehead, sometimes lips and other times her cheeks. Give her indirect signals to get ready for something big i.e. lovemaking. Now, when any romantic scene pops up, most probably your sweetie would become shy but don’t let her shyness dominate you. Instead go for it and practice what’s shown on the scene.
5. Sudden kiss unexpectedly while she is on the phone
This one is really surprising, intimidating and seductive. Attack her while she is talking on the phone at any time either form the back or front, suddenly planting a soft kiss on her lips. This would make her confused and the other party on the phone would wonder where the voice has lost? She would try her level best not to let the other party know what has been boiling up. Do this when you are sure she is on the phone with her friend or family members. You can even fondle lightly on her breasts, cheeks, shoulders or neck. This would distract and her to cut the phone and get engaged with you.
6. Get a note of what she says
In today’s fast paced lives, getting issues and small things noted on a piece of diary has become too hard of a task for anyone of us. Make it a habit to note down what she likes about you and what she wants to be improved in you. Jot them down in your separate diary without showing her. Then, try to improve on your weaknesses one by one. In weeks she would notice that you have become THE man for her. No wonders, her amazement would never stop there as she would find you to be the perfect one that she ever wanted.
7. Unexpectedly lifting her
Women, especially Asian women are shy to express their feelings. Many times they do give indirect signals but husbands fail to realize these strong signals of love or expression. If the next time she says ‚Sweetie, I can’t walk‛, do not reply ‚Oh God, what happened? Let me take you to the doctor!‛ You never know she might be signaling you to lift her up so that she can cuddle you like a small baby. Understand these small factors that bring in a lot of joy and success in married life. It is destined for males to be powerful and able enough to lift their sweethearts and carry them all around the house. Make sure you do it to win her heart and worship you in bed while you need her. This would really turn her on and while you have lifted, her lips, neck and breasts can be easily enjoyed. Let your tongue and lips do the magic slowly sucking on them. Perhaps this might be what she wanted after all.
8. Tell her that you now also love someone else i.e. your baby
Babies are blessings of God and perhaps there can’t be any moment in life that beats maximum happiness when a couple finds out that they are going to be blessed with a baby. How do you share this feeling with her? When you get the pregnancy report, consult with the doctor and confirm the good news. On your way home be normal and when you enter act as if nothing had happened.
Obviously she would not get a wind of what happened to you; however she deserves to know it. Start off slowly by saying ‚hmm, sweeties, I do not know how to say it, but… I have fallen in love with someone else from now and I’m sure you would love that special someone too.‛ She might get shocked or even nervous. This could be it to give her the signal, however these signals are hardly recognized by shy ladies that belong from the Asian background. ‚What, who, how, and why would I love that someone? Are you trying to cheat on me?‛ Softly reply ‚Sweetie we are going to witness a new addition to our family. You are expecting and going to be blessed by the title of mother, and I by a father.‛ Give her a cuddle and wipe her tears if she cries.
9. Use variations in speed while lovemaking
Lovemaking is the foundation of any marriage. Whether it be Christianity, Islam, Judaism or Hinduism the essence of lovemaking is essential not only for reproduction but also for peace, tranquility and health of the couple. In order to bring excitement, joy and pleasures each time you concrete your love with your sweetheart of life, make sure to bring in variations and changes so that both of you can get benefits. In this scenario, use variations in speed. Sometimes, be fast, wild and adventurous exploring each part of her body and at other times do all of those activities slowly. Feel the warmth of her breath at your neck and show her how deeply you lover her.
10. Listen to romantic, soft and sex seducing songs while lovemaking
Change is inevitable in every part of life and the situation is no different than being romantic as well. While enjoying sex with your sweetie, bring in changes and add soft & elegant touch of music. Songs of Enigma ignite sexual desires and if heard while lovemaking can really get the best out of both of you. Depends upon the type of relationship you are into, if you want to hear the sounds your darling is making, then it would not be a wise idea to listen to music. On the other hand if you think music turns you on, then let it being played while having sex. Make sure to try different things while lovemaking and notice which one workout best for you, to have sex while listening songs or not.