How to Make Your Wife Happy – Saying the Right Things On Valentines Day

What day іѕ it?”, “Time tо gеt up” оr “It’s уоur turn tо cook breakfast” аrе nоt good ways tо start the morning when іt іѕ Valentine’s Day. On Valentine’s Day уоu nееd tо think аbоut а wау that уоu саn add romance tо уоur conversations wіth уоur wife оr girlfriend all-day-long. One guru that I wаѕ speaking tо rесеntlу told mе that hе tells men that Valentine’s Day іѕ the time tо buy уоur wife flowers, chocolates аnd а personal gift. Yes, that wоuld bе nice, but аll men аrе nоt mаdе оf money аnd there are practical implications tо spending money when іt is needed elsewhere.

So, whether оr nоt уоu decide tо buy hеr а lot оf presents, I wаnt tо tеll уоu аbоut hоw tо speak аnd act оn this special day. Whether уоu аrе 24 years оld оr 69 years оld оr аnу оthеr age іt іѕ important tо remember that уоur wife јuѕt wаntѕ tо bе the mоѕt important person іn уоur life аnd ѕhе wаntѕ tо hear уоu tеll hеr that іn numerous ways.When уоu open уоur eyes іn the morning, уоu саn start wіth ѕоmеthіng sincere аbоut hоw уоu feel аbоut her.

Yоu саn preface іt bу ѕауіng –

“Today іѕ Valentine’s Day аnd I knоw іt іѕ аn important day fоr those оf uѕ іn love.” And then уоu соuld gо оn tо ѕау “I јuѕt wanted уоu tо knоw hоw muсh I love you.” Or “and ѕо today I’m gоіng tо spend іt making уоu happy.” Or “and I јuѕt wаnt уоu tо knоw that I think уоu аrе the #1 wife аnd mother іn the whole wide world!”

It’s important that what уоu ѕау іѕ what уоu mеаn аnd that уоu ѕау іt іn уоur оwn words. Yоu don’t wаnt уоur wife оr girlfriend ѕауіng “Did уоu read hоw tо dо this оn the internet?” Thе sentiments that уоu speak muѕt bе уоur sentiments. I аm оnlу hеrе tо give уоu а guide аnd ideas аbоut what уоu саn tеll her.Jeannie tells this story: “My husband isn’t а vеrу talkative man аnd hе hаѕ аlwауѕ told mе that I аm the romantic оnе іn the family аnd I’m іn charge оf ѕауіng romantic things. Sо wе devised а lіttlе dialogue that wе саn use. I ѕау “Say ѕоmеthіng romantic” аnd hе ѕауѕ “You hаvе great legs”. And then wе laugh.

What I lіkе аbоut іt іѕ that theу helped create the dialogue аnd that іt іѕ their personal lіttlе game that іѕ оnlу bеtwееn them. Hаvіng special songs, jokes, dialogues, secrets bеtwееn еасh оthеr that аrе meant јuѕt fоr the two оf уоu adds intimacy аnd specialness – nоt tо mention – romance tо уоur relationship.You don’t hаvе tо bе fancy! Simple words аrе great.

Quoting Browning wіth “How dо I love thee, Lеt mе count the ways” іѕ nice but quoting poetry isn’t mandatory! Yоur оwn words аrе саn bе јuѕt аѕ meaningful.”I love уоu honey” gоеѕ аlоng wау when іt јuѕt pops оut еvеrу ѕо often. Men who live bу the slogan “I told уоu when I married уоu that I loved уоu аnd іf I change mу mind I’ll lеt уоu know” don’t hаvе а long shelf life аѕ а husband оr boyfriend! Don’t bе afraid tо tеll уоur wife hоw уоu feel аbоut her.

Other things that уоu саn compliment hеr оn include nоt оnlу the wау ѕhе lооkѕ but hоw ѕhе acts. “I rеаllу lіkеd hоw уоu dealt wіth the kids this morning аt breakfast. Yоu hаvе а rеаllу good wау wіth children – I’m ѕо lucky tо hаvе уоu аѕ the mother оf mу children.” Appreciation gоеѕ а long wау іn аnу relationship. Bеіng appreciative іѕ аnоthеr wау tо bе romantic еѕресіаllу іf уоu include а kiss wіth the positive statement.And јuѕt bеfоrе уоu close уоur eyes оn Valentine’s night, remember tо еnd the day wіth а romantic word оr two. “You аrе ѕо beautiful аnd I’m ѕо proud tо bе уоur husband.” оr “That wаѕ а great day wе hаd together, I’m ѕо lucky tо hаvе уоu fоr а wife аnd bеѕt friend.” “Good night, darling!”

Romantic Poems for Sentimental Moments

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Endless torments dwell about thee:
Yet who would live, and live without thee!

Rosamond, Act iii. Sc J. ADDISON.

If there’s delight in love, ’tis when I see
The heart, which others bleed-for, bleed for me.

Way of the World, Act iii Sc W. CONGREVE

Give, you gods,
Give to your boy, your Caesar,
The rattle of a globe to play withal,
This gewgaw world, and put him cheaply off;
I’ll not be pleased with less than Cleopatra

All for Love, Act ii. Sc J. DRYDEN.

Much ado there was, God wot;
He woold love, and she woold not,
She sayd, “Never man was trewe;”
He sayes, “None was false to you.”

Phillida and Corydon N. BRETON.

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Forty thousand brothers
Could not, with all their quantity of love,
Make up my sum.

Hamlet, Act v. Sc SHAKESPEARE

Love, then, hath every bliss in store;
‘Tis friendship, and ’tis something more
Each other every wish they give;
Not to know love is not to live

Plutus, Cupid, and Time J. GAY

What thing is love?–for (well I wot) love is a thing
It is a prick, it is a sting,
It is a pretty, pretty thing;
It is a fire, it is a coal,
Whose flame creeps in at every hole!

The Hunting of Cupid G. PEELE

With a smile that glowed
Celestial rosy red;
love’s proper hue

Paradise Lost, Bk. VIII MILTON

Love, like death, Levels all ranks,
and lays the shepherd’s crook Beside the sceptre

Lady of Lyons E. BULWER-LYTTON

Sweet to entrance
The raptured soul by intermingling glance

Psyche MRS. M. TIGHE.

Our souls sit close and silently within,
And their own web from their own entrails spin;
And when eyes meet far off, our sense is such,
That, spider-like, we feel the tenderest touch

Marriage a la Mode, Act ii. Sc J. DRYDEN.

Of all the paths that lead to a woman’s love Pity’s the straightest.

Knight of Malta, Act i. Sc BEAUMONT AND FLETCHER.

So mourned the dame of Ephesus her love;
And thus the soldier, armed with resolution,
Told his soft tale, and was a thriving wooer.

Shakespeare’s King Richard III. (Altered), Act ii. Sc. 1C. CIBBER.

The Devil hath not, in all his quiver’s choice,
An arrow for the heart like a sweet voice.

Don Juan, Canto XV LORD BYRON

If thou dost love, pronounce it faithfully;
Or, if thou think’st I am too quickly won,
I’ll frown, and be perverse, and say thee nay,
So thou wilt woo; but, else, not for the world.

Romeo and Juliet, Act v. Sc. 2 SHAKESPEARE.

Read it, sweet maid, though it be done but slightly:
Who can show all his love doth love but lightly.

Sonnet S. DANIEL.

Love first invented verse, and formed the rhyme,
The motion measured, harmonized the chime.

Cymon and Iphigenia J. DRYDEN.

None without hope e’er loved the brightest fair,
But love can hope where reason would despair.

Epigram GEORGE, LORD LYTTELTON

Always Longing For The Flame

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Stories told of long ago,

Of lovers lost but still I know,

Forever I shall feel the same,

Always longing for the flame.

As the river longs to touch the sea,

I long to find a love for me,

Wishing, hoping, dreaming of,

That one eternal lasting love.

When stars shine bright obsession reigns,

A thought alone can bring such pains,

Will I find that one “I do?”

A star so bright twixt midnight blue?

I want to feel that flaming heat,

And marvel at that massive fleet,

The chance of getting burned I’ll take,

For love I’ll put it all at stake.

Stories told of long ago,

Of lover lost but still I know,

Forever I shall feel the same,

Always longing for the flame.

 

Written By Mel

First Kiss

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We walked together hand-in-hand,

And between our toes we felt the sand.

I listened close as you talked to me,

As we walked alone beside the sea.

Then we discussed the movie we’d seen,

With Nicholas Cage & Charlie Sheen.

But as the sun began to set,

More than just my feet got wet.

For we were laying on the shore –

he asked if we could be something more

Than just the friends we’d always been,

The best of friends since we were ten.

And then I smiled and told him yes,

I didn’t realize, I should have guessed.

He came a little closer to me,

What he did next you should have seen.

He placed his mouth upon my lips,

And slid his hands down under my hips.

His touch was soft, he held me close,

I hoped that he would never let go.

We lay there kissing, holding one another,

We knew that we were meant for each other.

And to this day I love that boy,

He is my world, my life, my joy.

The Season Of Romance

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The season of romance has arrived

The tress are decorated and mistletoe hung high

Couples sit close to the fire embracing each other

Enthralled by sweet compassion and care

Recently I’ve found myself searching

For something wrapped in perfection

You can’t cover it with tissue paper or appealing bows

All I need is one good love and one hand to hold

I’ve been missing this portion of my heart

While I’ve searched I’ve missed the one right beside me

The thought never crossed my mind to find everything in him

No, he’s not the one I’ve dreamt many dreams of

But he surely has a heart of gold and delicate eyes of sapphire

All in which compel me to smile with much delight

My heart is on my sleeve, it’s yours to own with intense compassion

My heart has been damaged before more than once

Please pick me up and love me softly with fiery affection

I want to be lost in your sweet embrace

And drowned with precious eloquent gestures

But only one love can touch this committed heart

I want my love to be like the love of two young children

When holding hands was so cherished and a sudden kiss was unheard of

Let’s go back to those days so our love will never vanish

This is all I ask of you my love please reply delicately

Give me an answer in a quite whisper, no one needs to hear

Nothing is more important then you and me right now

Lets make this fairy tale wish come true with a blissful happy ending

Longing

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I long to feel you near me

I long to know you care

To lay down by your side tonight

And stay forever there

I long for you to notice me

I long to know your past

To feel your smooth and tender kiss

And make each moment last

I long to solve your problems

I long to make things right

To hear your heartbeat while you sleep

As I lay awake at night

I long for you to change my life

I long to be the one

To truly fulfill all your dreams

And make your sadness gone

I long to feel your magic touch

I long to say you’re mine

Is what I’m asking for so much?

For I long for you all the time

You Touched Me

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With that golden hair,

and those silver-blue eyes

you ignited the flame within my heart.

With that sweet smile and airy laughter,

you gave to me a life full of wonder.

I never dreamed anything could be so beautiful.

I never thought I could be a part of something so unique.

I never felt this emotion before; this love.

You touched me, so gently, with those large, innocent eyes.

You touched me, so deeply, with that intelligent mind.

You touched me; so mesmerizing is your soul.

To my Wanderer, my love; Caitlin.

Yours Eternally, Chris

You touched me; you stole my heart,

and now I can no longer see anyone else.

To you, I give what I have failed to give to others: myself.

To you, I give my love, something that has just recently surfaced.

To you, I give my all… And with that, I mean my heart.

You touched me as I hope I have touched you.

You believed in me as I believe in you.

You came to me; you caught me as I fell;

You embraced me, held me tight while the wind howled,

and tried to drive me away.

You loved me.

And I will eternally love you.

5 Romantic Ideas

Who says being romantic is just the guy’s job? Think your relationship has become a little stagnant on the romance side? Instead of waiting for you guy to somehow read your thoughts and come up with your dream romantic gesture, why not try taking the reins once in a while? By being romantic yourself , you can not only inspire him to be romantic too, but you can have the power to come up with heaps of dazzling ideas to get him in the mood for romance. Not everyone has built-in romantic-ness but that doesn’t mean they won’t enjoy it. Some guys would even say they don’t know how to be romantic, so why not teach them in the ways of love? It’s just as fun surprising him with some quirky date ideas as it is for him, so set the pace, add a little competitive edge to get him trying some new things too. Here are some great ways to start your brainstorming, add little details yourself, got a favorite song? or a perfume he loves you wearing? make these creative ways to be romantic your own, it’s all in the little details that set your romance apart. Not sure if it’s “okay” to do something, don’t worry about it, it’s your romance, make your own traditions. You might feel silly but sometimes the silliest things become your greatest relationship traditions (e.g always kissing at a red light…)

1. Treasure Hunts

My fiance loves these! He’s had his turns creating the most awesome treasure hunts. But I love making them too. Add the excitement of finding things, as our men were born hunters you know. Just like when we were children, the novelty of a treasure hunt never wears off. You can make it a little more, shall I say, adult rated by getting him to search for thing you probably wouldn’t think of a prize when you were little. In our treasure hunts, my finance and I like to write cue cards hidden for each other to find. For example, you can get him to do a treasure hunt just in your room, hide the cards with little riddles on each of them to find the next clue. Leading him to a variety of items, like strawberries, glasses, rose petals…to name a few. To go even more grandeur, take the treasure hunt outside. We tried doing this in the city and it was great fun! We ended up in a science fair he had never been to but had always wanted to, we got lost on a bus, and ended up having the most heavenly muffins. The more personal the ideas, the better, as they show your partner you’re listening and appreciate him. Not all treasure hunts will go as planned, but that’s even better, add a bit of spontaneity and some tough riddles to get him totally consumed with your romantic idea.

2. Read to Him
It’s a rainy day, and you both just want to stay in bed, or hang out in the living room. If you’re a book worm like me, why not read out loud to him? My fiance always tells me if I didn’t have him, I would be buried in a book for the rest of life. I agree. He always wonders what it is I’m reading or so obsessed with that I’ll just sit there for hours not saying anything and hardly moving. ‘No I am not comatose’ I will reply, and then get back to reading. This romantic idea came to us a rainy day not too long ago. To spice things up, I read aloud a romance novel I had been dying to read, and so I thought why not share this experience with him? Let him know what all this fuss is about with women and romance novels. It’s great fun, choose a sexy chapter if you like, and inspire him to see romance from a women’s point of view. He can add his own storylines, or you can both laugh at how absurd the heroine in the novel acts when the hero announces his undying love for her. Romance novels are suppose to be silly, enjoy them together! :)

3. A Date She Wrote

Similar to treasure hunts, this romantic idea is where you take the reins! Plan a date, whether just for the morning, afternoon or night, or the whole weekend if you prefer. And when I say take the reins, you’ve got to put in some work girl. Every little detail from where you’re going to eat, to what activities, and the precise timing, this date is all on you. Create some ground rules, such as he can’t ask where he’s going and has to just go along with what you have planned. It will add a bit of mystery to the date and you’ll have so much fun watching him trying to guess what’s going to happen next.

If you’ve read that post, or are going to (please do), you’ll find it can be awesome fun times, and truly romantic for both of you. Plus it really gets the competitive juices going, after your turn, get him to try and see who can come up with the most meaningful and unique date ideas.

4.Write a Song

Now you don’t have to be a musical genius to do this. Get creative, write a poem, a rap, a weirdly awesome funk song. Whatever the type of song, or if you can sing or not, it is so cute to see the effort you’ve made. Write lyrics of memories the two of you share, make it an “us” song. The delivery is up to you, you can share it with others (embarrass him maybe a little) or it can be in the comfort of just the two of you. I know a friend who posted hers to facebook and only a limited number of people could see it. Or you can save it for a momentous event. Like at his birthday party or your wedding? :)

5.Take him for a run

The ever-original picnic date has had a few updates to its format the past few years. No longer does it just mean, bringing a blanket and some sandwiches and lemonade. Couples are getting more fancy these days, bringing a spread of cheeses, breads, wines and grapes. To take a more creative route to this time tested romantic idea, why not try making a ‘themed picnic’ for example bringing out the kid in both of you rather than the expected wine and dine opportunity. For food bring kiddy finger food, you know those ones you will always remember as a kid – cupcakes with love hearts on them, chicken nuggets, boiled eggs…random foods that bring a huge smile to both of your faces. And from there (after you are well rested and content) flip the switch take him for a run! It’s all been said before, exercise produces endorphins. Get those happy hormones packed into your date! Turn a simple picnic into a fun day out in the park, bring a soccer ball, or a frisby, and to make it more of a romantic idea than just a day at the park, make a game out of it. Whoever missed the frisby has to give the other a big hug, or a kiss on the cheek. You might find you’ll be losing on purpose. Or try using these games to tell each other inner thoughts. Ask him something he’s never told anyone before. Or a secret fear. Get to know each other like best friends. Because who doesn’t want the person they may spend the rest of their life to be their best friend too?

Saying Romantic Things to Your Boyfriend

You will find plenty of reason for for each other or becoming loved by someone. Love, essentially cannot be defined. By showing the man you’re dating the amount he approach to you, you get nearer to him. By saying cute items for the guy you’re dating, you’ll have the ability to raise his spirits, boost his morale and heal his wounds. Love isn’t necessarily physical relationship it’s some factor profound. More often than not there’s an area around when gifts, gestures of affection, cute words making rapport special. Small things, understandings, and forgiving create a relationship special.

Nowadays, words have equal importance to actions. Gone may be the stating that actions speak even even even louder than words. In recent occasions, cute words play a considerable role in almost any relationship. Just just in case the guy you are dating is growing rapidly depressed or even is feeling low, an appeasing word, a gesture of affection, a text inside the right moment can modify his mood. Because of this , couples send cute messages for partners, write extended mails adoring one another.

Boys love being appreciated by their female pals. They’re more according to as well as want assurance and care. Thus, say cute items on their behalf which will bring smile on their own faces and they are likely to shower a lot more love.

Right here are a handful of cute products you are able to inform the man you’re dating:

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  • Make certain he knows how special he’s in your existence.
  • Tell how lucky you are feeling being his girlfriend.
  • Make certain he knows how he’s changed your existence.
  • Make certain he knows many occasions that you simply love him.
  • Make certain he knows you can be careful for him for the relaxation in the existence.
  • Write a poem or some cute saying on social networking site.
  • Function as first ones to deliver a text every day.
  • Write cute captions under his photo during my space page.
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    Remember, anything you say should be sincere as well as in the ft from the heart. You shouldn’t be stupid and copy-paste something online. You have to deeply sense of him otherwise it’ll appear shallow. Language could be a approach to communication and to keep your relationship going, romance live, sweet phrases if shipped inside the correct some time and appropriate conditions can strengthen your bond.

    You have to understand whenever you say cute items for the guy you’re dating. Don’t say anything before his co-employees or pals. These sweet nothings needs to be pointed out when you’re alone, by helping cover their him for nearly any dinner or round the have a very possess a have a picnic or choose any extended drive. Don’t put him in a embarrassing situation.

    Finding Romantic Things to Say to Your Boyfriend

    You’ll want innovative ways, ideas and also hard wearing relationship youthful and lasting. Cute things if stated to boyfriend add spice to existence. Whether your relationship now has wrinkles or relatively recent, you have to tell him just how much he way to you and what’s his importance inside your existence. Finding out how to say things is often as essential as the cute items to tell the man you’re dating themselves.

    You have to remember that this can be a very delicate relationship it’s not a bloodstream relationship that is thicker than water. Timings play an essential role if this involves saying cute items to the man you’re dating. Your motives and truthfulness must reflect inside your words. You have to say that’s significant to him. Boys are usually more practical think why he’s stand out and why is him outstanding in the crowd. What spatial quality he’s that you’re attracted to him. Could it be his humbleness, pleasantness, talent, personality trait, practical sense or other quality or trait which makes him special inside your existence? Learn how to appreciate his remarkable characteristics and praise him for your.

    You have to learn how to compliment the man you’re dating which is the easiest method to lead him to think how special you are feeling about him. Make certain that you need to get the best compliment for the best some time and apt situation and they ought to be true and that he should be worth it. You are able to compliment him on his appearance, his cooking abilities, his smile, his thoughtfulness, his caring character, his actions, his texting abilities, his kissing ability, his respect for the people in the household,his forgiving character, his method of your fits, his humor, his methods for having sex, or something that you are feeling touches only you feel passionately about this.

    The following important factor would be to say words of gratitude for your boyfriend. You have to appreciate the items he is doing for you personally. Choose the best expression for his gestures and bearing in mind his personality, his preferences, express words of thanks. Don’t take any factor as a given.It is normal for associations being much more comfortable but even keeping a couple of cute items to tell the man you’re dating will keep the miracle alive.

    Make certain that the tone is appropriate and also the words sincere. Don’t forget this relationship is made on trust and belief. Thus you can preserve your relationship glow and the sparkle of romance inside your existence by saying cute items to the man you’re dating.

    Besides saying, you are able to enrich your ex-existence by caressing his hair, adding loving gestures, putting on the perfume he loves, or putting on the shirt he’s gifted you. Remember there’s not only learn cute items to tell the man you’re dating, actions speak even louder than words because they say. In summary, this stuff cannot be completely trained overnight they may be self-learnt and self-experienced.